Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Gotta getta.....LIFE?

237 or so days until camp 2011. I gotta getta life. I mean I understand the concept of work, family and friends but motivation has eluded me. I have been dabbling in retail for the past two months but have 0 prospects for teaching. I guess I am waiting for an art teacher or art teaching job to arrive by email. I can hear it now "You've got TALENT"

How does one stay motivated in this crazy world. We try to stay positive and active to show our children that we can be good roll models. However, sometimes you need to stop and regroup. One needs to figure out what it is that makes us happy. The leaves are changing, the weather is warm and time is rolling forward. But we live day to day and never stop to think about what it means. One life, one meaning..truly this can't be it.

I still want to do something creative, artistic with children. I love what I do at camp can't that translate that into something that makes money.....

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

October 26, 2010

Although the month is not yet over, I am looking back on the month of October. Five years ago sis Debby and I decided to start walking for a cure for Breast Cancer, using Avon as our forum. At that time, finding a cure for Breast Cancer was going to be a very long walk. There was only hope and a lot of research done to find a cure. Now five years later, it is not IF we are going to find the cure but WHEN. This will happen in my childrens', and maybe even in my lifetime. There will be a cure, a vacination an end to Breast Cancer.

So this entry of my journal is to celebrate this fact (and Na's Girls raising over 12,000) along with being able to eat marshmallow peeps and candy corn. Oh yes, to embrace my friendship and love for my sister Debby. Together we walk, talk and make knishes to celebrate our mother Naomi for all she was. (Sherry is with us also but we do the walking LOL)

Love and thanks to all who care

Monday, October 25, 2010

I'm Back and its been too long!

Since I am semi-unemployed like a great deal of the United States.. I decided to resume my blog...That of a "Mod" Housewife. I think I will add my art journaling and artistic endeavors into the blog this time. If you out there have other things you wish to discuss or have me talk about just chime on the blogsight and I'll incorporate it. For now short and sweet until I decide what comes next. Good to be back P.S. I promise to keep my farmvilling out of the blog entirely, as I don't want to lose any of my readers.

Thursday, November 12, 2009

The Evil Eye



Why the Evil Eye bead is more than just a good luck charm:

The Evil Eye is more than just a superstitious myth, and evil eye beads are more than just good luck charms. They are a reminder that we are all one people.

How's that?

Take an Orthodox from Greece, a Catholic from Mexico, a Jew from Israel, or a Muslim from Turkey, Iran, or anywhere in the Middle East. Different people, different religions, everybody always fighting all the time, etc, etc.

But what do they all have in common? They all believe in the Evil Eye, and they all wear these good luck charms to guard against it.

The Evil Eye is a reminder that underneath it all, we are all the same human beings, even if we think we're different.

In our eyes, that's what makes the evil eye REALLY cool!

Enough editorial, now for the straight story...

Throughout the Mediterranean and Middle East, many people believe envious gazes or high praise from others can bring you bad luck.

The people who praise you probably mean you no harm, but still, evil spirits can piggyback in on their words or looks, and put a bad luck curse on you.

The Nazar Boncuk charm (or Evil Eye Bead) is an "eye", often set on a blue background. It stares back at the world to ward off the evil spirits and keep you safe from harm. It is one of the most common items of decoration in any Turkish home, in any car, or on any person. You can see the charm hanging above doorways, dangling from the wrists of young women, or even planted right into the cement outside modern office buildings.

And always, always, you will see them pinned to the shirts of newborn babies.

What do the colors mean? In Turkey and surrounding countries, the most popular evil eye charm color is blue. Turkey is in a dry part of the world, where water is precious -- with water things prosper and grow, and without it, things shrivel and die. The color blue reminds people of fresh, cool water.

In the Jewish faith, the color red is often associated with luck and good fortune, so red is also a popular color.

When the Evil Eye Bead appears in other colors besides blue or red, it is usually for fashion reasons -- color coordination with one's wardrobe. Beads in the alternative colors have every bit as much protective power as the traditional blue ones.

Evil eye beads go back thousands of years. The earliest written references to the evil eye occur on Sumerian clay tablets dating to the third millennium BC. Agate beads of exceptional quality, worn to protect the wearer from the influence of the evil eye, were also discovered in royal Sumerian graves at Ur.

In Turkey and Greece, throughout the republics of Central Asia, and all the way to the Turkic regions of western China -- the effects of the "evil eye" are believed real, and genuinely feared.

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Jews and Tattoos What's a mother to Do?


Jews & Tattoos: What's a motherto Do?
I found this commentary came in an old Hillel College Newsletter.

A tattooed Jew.
A Jewish college student with a tattoo.

To hear Adam Sundheim tell it, his chance meeting with Chasidic reggae star, Matisyahu, was the heart-pounding opportunity he had been waiting for.

“He came out backstage after his show,” explains the University of Central Florida junior. “And I showed it to him.”

The “it” was a tattoo of the singer, the “size of a CD cover” complete with three Hebrew words inked onto Sundheim’s back.

As Matisyahu nodded his appreciation, he asked his fan a simple question: “Do you know the Jewish law about tattoos?”

And while Sundheim, the grandson of a rabbi, conceded he did know about the Jewish prohibition against tattoos, he explained to Matisyahu that the tattoo was significant to his “personal relationship with Hashem (God).”

Sundheim is not the only Jewish college student to express his Jewish identity with a tattoo. Although no statistics are available for Jewish college students, the American Academy of Dermatology states that tattoos are more common today than ever before. A 2003 Harris poll found that 16 percent of adults had at least one tattoo.

When Jewish students consider a tattoo, they often turn to their Hillel rabbi for advice. “Usually students approach the subject [of getting a tattoo] by asking: ‘Is it true that…’ or ‘My mother said…’” says Rabbi Barton Lee at Arizona State University Hillel.

For most students, they want some clarification of their parents’ most powerful warning: "You can’t be buried in a Jewish cemetery if you have a tattoo.”

“Their folks aren’t going to like this, but they’re wrong,” says Lee.

The news was a relief for Rachel Lazerwitz who went to see her rabbi to find out about the “can’t be buried in a Jewish cemetery thing” after an initial consultation with a local tattoo artist about a Jewish star tattoo for her ankle.

And while the rabbi told her tattooing was still not permissible by Jewish law, her eventual burial would not be problem. But for the Webster University senior, it gave her pause.

“It did actually feel sort of weird. I don’t want to get God mad,” she said. “I had to think about [getting a tattoo] some more.”

“As a Hillel rabbi and as an Orthodox Jew my role is to interact with the students where they are,” says Rabbi Avi Orlow of St. Louis Hillel. For some students that may even mean spelling and drawing a Hebrew word for their tattoo, he says.

When talking to students about their questions on tattooing, Rabbi Shalom Bochner of Santa Cruz Hillel stresses the importance of “recognizing that they are their own person and put their concerns in a human context.”

“The students know it’s a Jewish taboo, but they don’t know why,” says Orlow.

To answer these questions and help dispel myths, some Hillel rabbis have held classes and learning sessions. Rabbi Lee held a Shabbat evening class on the issue of “Whose Body is it?” and Rabbi David Levy at Colgate University and Hamilton College Hillel, facilitated a Sukkot learning session entitled, “Jews, Booze and Tattooing.”

“I wanted to help dispel the rumors. When students are 19, being buried is not their biggest concern,” says Levy. “Instead I ask them ‘when you’re 80 will you still want to have that tattoo?’”

And regret is perhaps a more plausible concern for today’s college student with tattoos.

Justin Levine a “Jew with quite a few tattoos” openly admits that he regrets two Chinese letters he had tattooed on his hips shortly after his 18th birthday.

“They were a fad,” says the University of Central Florida senior. “I might even cover them up.”

Or not. And time will tell if he feels the same way about another tattoo along his side. The four ink-black Hebrew words translate to read: “Follow your heart.”

“It’s important for students to know what our Jewish traditions are and then they can make an informed decision,” says Bochner. “In general, Judaism has more flexibility than people think.”

For more details on the traditional Jewish approach to tattoos:
Tattoos: Hip. Cool. Artsy. Permanent. Kosher?
* The biblical verse, “You shall not make gashes in your flesh for the dead, or incise any marks on yourselves: I am the Lord” (Leviticus 19:28) is the foundational text upon which later Rabbinic scholars developed the prohibitions against tattooing. Rabbinic law clarifies the biblical statute and states that only tattoos of a permanent nature are considered impermissible.

* Maimonides, a leading 12th century scholar of Jewish law and thought, explains that the prohibition against tattoos originates as a Jewish response to paganism. Since it was common practice for ancient pagan worshippers to tattoo themselves with religious iconography and names of gods, Judaism prohibited tattoos entirely in order to disassociate from other religions.

* A later developed and commonly heard explanation for the prohibition against tattoos connects to the Jewish concept that all humans were created B’Tzelem Elokin (in the image of God). The mystical interpretation of this prohibition is that the human body is a holy vessel and a gift from God and as such, we are expected to care for our bodies and treat them preciously, which forbids certain actions including tattooing.

* It is a popular myth that a Jewish person who has a tattoo is not permitted to be buried in a Jewish cemetery. Despite the prohibition, there is absolutely no legal justification to prevent a person with a tattoo from receiving a Jewish burial. Interestingly, tattoos are unique in the sense that evidence of the transgression remains on the body after death.

* In a post-Holocaust era it is important to clarify that the prohibition against tattoos applies only to cases of voluntary tattooing. The Shulchan Aruch (16th century book of codified Jewish law) explains that when a person is tattooed involuntarily or against his will, he is not accountable for the act. This statute is particularly relevant to many Jews who received number tattoos on their arms during the Holocaust.

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Did you go to camp as a kid? How about as an adult


Did you go to camp as a kid? How about as an adult. If you didn't you have no idea how your world changes once you have participated in camp life.

It's like moving in to Disney land for two months. Every morning you get to wake up in a small house with your best friends. You have breakfast where your favorite sugary cereal hot or cold is there for you. You can eat it with whole, 1% or 2% milk. You can eat your cereal alone or with a banana or maybe pancakes and/or french toast sticks. After you eat you get to go hiking, caneoing, painting and/or drawing. Or maybe you'll take a bus to another camp, where your school friends are and play volleyball, basketball or tennis.

Then after a lunch of let's say yummy grilled cheese, potato sticks and Campbell's tomato soup you get to go swimming. Then you can select to make a cool duct tape bracelet, or a music video in an amazing music/video studio.

At 4:00 there is always a snack of fresh cut apples/ pretzels or carrot sticks.

More activities of candle making, roller hockey and hand build ceramics. Topped off by zip lining, blob jumping, cheer leading, sewing or karate.

Dinner, shower and more hanging out with friends. Closing with cookies before bed.

Going to camp builds friendships, self-confidence, and leadership traits. Camp teaches you to work with others, respecting their differences and to appreciate people from all over the world with different cultures, languages and lifestyles.

Camp made relationships tend to last a lifetime, and sometimes are almost like extended family members.

The time spent in the short period of 8 weeks that you spend at camp is like being in a mini community. Everyone has their job and is there to work together, to ensure that a good time is had by all. And it does happen.

Camp, is not always perfect. It wouldn't be "CAMP" if it were. Each year the cast of characters may be different, but this adds to the experience. No matter how old you are going to camp is life changing. You get to go away from your regular routine of home life and be in a pretend world for two months.

If you have never been to camp go. If your an adult and want your kids to have what I just described go with them to camp. Have your own fun and be there with your family. (Although I try to be generic in my writing I have to admit I have a tear in my eye thinking about how much I love my camp family and how much they have changed and enhanced my life. Thank you to them all.)

If you are interested just ask me how and I'll be happy to share my secret.....

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Thursday, October 22, 2009

Guy's Rules - For my husband



I have to admit this came from an email from a good friend but it was much to good to delete. So I dedicate it to most of the men we love. (my dad is the exception as he knows women very well)

NOW HERE ARE THE RULES FROM THE MALE SIDE.
THESE ARE OUR RULES!
PLEASE NOTE.. THESE ARE ALL NUMBERED "1"
ON PURPOSE!

1. MEN ARE NOT MIND READERS.

1. LEARN TO WORK THE TOILET SEAT. YOU'RE A BIG GIRL. IF IT'S UP, PUT IT DOWN. WE NEED IT UP, YOU NEED IT DOWN. YOU DON'T HEAR US COMPLAINING ABOUT YOU LEAVING IT DOWN.

1. SUNDAY SPORTS IT'S LIKE THE FULL MOON OR THE CHANGING OF THE TIDES. LET IT BE.

1. SHOPPING IS NOT A SPORT. AND NO, WE ARE NEVER GOING TO THINK OF IT THAT WAY.

1. CRYING IS BLACKMAIL.

1. ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT. LET US BE CLEAR ON THIS ONE: SUBTLE HINTS DO NOT WORK! STRONG HINTS DO NOT WORK! OBVIOUS HINTS DO NOT WORK! JUST SAY IT!

1. YES AND NO ARE PERFECTLY ACCEPTABLE ANSWERS TO ALMOST EVERY QUESTION.

1. COME TO US WITH A PROBLEM ONLY IF YOU WANT HELP SOLVING IT. THAT'S WHAT WE DO.
SYMPATHY IS WHAT YOUR GIRLFRIENDS ARE FOR.


1. ANYTHING WE SAID 6 MONTHS AGO IS INADMISSIBLE IN AN ARGUMENT. IN FACT, ALL COMMENTS BECOME NULL AND VOID AFTER 7 DAYS.


1. IF YOU THINK YOU'RE FAT, YOU PROBABLY ARE. DON'T ASK US.

1. IF SOMETHING WE SAID CAN BE INTERPRETED TWO WAYS AND ONE OF THE WAYS MAKES YOU SAD OR ANGRY, WE MEANT THE OTHER ONE

1.. You can either ask us to do something Or tell us how you want it done.
Not both.
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials..

1. Christopher Columbus did NOT NEED DIRECTIONS AND NEITHER DO WE.

1. ALL MEN SEE IN ONLY 16 COLORS, LIKE WINDOWS DEFAULT SETTINGS.
PEACH, FOR EXAMPLE, IS A FRUIT, NOT A COLOR. PUMPKIN IS ALSO A FRUIT. WE HAVE NO IDEA WHAT MAUVE IS.

1. IF IT ITCHES, IT WILL BE SCRATCHED. WE DO THAT.

1. IF WE ASK WHAT IS WRONG AND YOU SAY "NOTHING," WE WILL ACT LIKE NOTHING'S WRONG.
WE KNOW YOU ARE LYING, BUT IT IS JUST NOT WORTH THE HASSLE.

1. IF YOU ASK A QUESTION YOU DON'T WANT AN ANSWER TO, EXPECT AN ANSWER YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR.

1. WHEN WE HAVE TO GO SOMEWHERE, ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING YOU WEAR IS FINE... REALLY .

1. DON'T ASK US WHAT WE'RE THINKING ABOUT UNLESS YOU ARE PREPARED TO DISCUSS SUCH TOPICS AS WORK, BASEBALL, THE SHOTGUN FORMATION,OR ACTION TV PROGRAMS.

1. YOU HAVE ENOUGH CLOTHES.

1. YOU HAVE TOO MANY SHOES.

1. I AM IN SHAPE. ROUND IS A SHAPE!

We love our men